How to Prepare for your Mediumship Reading:
Mediumship is sort of like playing inter-dimensional charades and some things, like names, can be difficult to translate from energy into words. Figuring out who's talking, or who is being referenced, through identifying facts is the first step of the mediumship process. I do get specific names on occasion, but not always and people's months of birth or death seems to be the universal way that dead people initially reference who they are, or who they are talking about. Specific validations and messages come through once we've established who we're talking to or about.
Before your session, I strongly suggest making a chart with the months of the year down one column and the names of all your family members and close friends, dead or alive, listed next to their corresponding month of birth and/or death. That means that the people who have passed will be on your list twice. The charting process itself can be healing and enjoyable, especially if done with close family or friends. Feel free to jot down any notes, identifying events, characteristics, or questions for each of the people on your list.
If you have a chart ready, it makes figuring out who's speaking or who someone on the other side is referring to much easier and faster. Try and have your list on hand during your reading, it really helps with the very common tendency to freeze up or go blank when I ask a question. Trust me when I say it saves time and makes things go a lot smoother. I can't tell you the number of times people have called me after a reading to tell me that they've figured out what a piece of information means and they can't believe they didn't put it together in the moment.
Your Mediumship Reading:
Mediumship sessions almost always unfold in surprising ways. I never know who is going to show up, in what order, or what they'll want to talk about. Although I can't guarantee that a specific person will come through during a session, if you want to talk to someone specific they usually do show up. My aim is always to provide undeniable personal proof of your loved one's identity and the eternal nature of consciousness while facilitating connection, reminiscing and reconciliation. It is not uncommon for my mediumship session to blend with some coaching as issues from your life might arise.